Matthew chapter 16
"If anyone would come after me, he must deny himself and take up his cross and follow me. For whoever wants to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for me will find it. What good will it be for a man if he gains the whole world, yet forfeits his soul?
I love that song...I don't want to gain the whole world and lose my soul...
We must not put ourselves first we must deny ourselves.